Today is our 10th year anniversary. I can't believe
time flew that fast! Four kids, a lot of trials and triumphs, plenty
of kisses and hugs later,and we're still crazily in love with each
other. Mushy huh? But true.
We met when we were both 19. I was inactive in an
artists' group for a few months and decided to attend a get-together
when I had more time from school projects and internships. A lot
of new members from other universities were present. I noticed several
cute guys in the group. Ah-hum the female antennae working.
When we all went out for ice cream, he managed to
catch my attention by telling jokes. He was a funny, good-looking
guy alright. I couldn't have known that in less than a year, I would
be falling helplessly, joyously in love with him. He was the sweetest,
most caring guy I've ever met and I felt so blessed having him in
my life. We tied the knot three years later.
Now, after 10 years of marriage, here we are, still
laughing at each other's jokes, still trying to outdo each other
in winning computer games,still saying "I love you's"
after every phone conversation. He can still make my heart flutter
with a certain look, a soft-spoken word, a caress.He's the only
one I can share anything and everything with. My best friend, my
other half, my lifeline.
Here's wishing that we not have only ten years more
but enough more years to give us more chances to spend a lifetime
together. Ten years is not enough. We both pray that we get to see
and hold our grandchildren someday, to walk hand in hand with gray
hairs on our heads and still be able to say "I love you"
everyday. Only then will we be finally able to say we have lived
a lifetime and enjoyed every minute of it.
Let me share with you his version of the day we met...he
wrote this just after we got married...it made me cry...I loved
him more for it....
Vividly, I can still recall that particular moment.
One late afternoon,
candidly unaware of the coming of a special event that would change
the
course of history of two ordinary people...
Across the room, amidst the crowd of friends, she
sits. A scene-stealer
from the pattern of usual faces. Like a Sunday dress with no
embellishments or style - she stood out in radiance.
Just weeks before, I only perceived her in pictures
and stories from
common peers. From then on, I dreamt and wished for her acquaintance.
And then with a spin of destiny, with no reason nor signs of order,
a wish
happened when least expected.
A complete stranger, irrelevant to her sight, I tried
with my best
efforts to evade her view. But her gentle sighs were just too strong
for me, I
couldn't help but stare.
Finally, things were bound to happen. Our eyes crossed
paths. I felt a
jolt of excitement from a stupid stunt I made - looking at her with
my
clownish grin, which I thought would spoil it all - she smiled back
as
if we've known each other forever.
That late afternoon, as the sun shone outside the
window behind her, I
witnessed a view of a perfect sunset.
By: ruth floresca
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