Is it really possible for a man to fall in love with two or more women at the same time? Let us hear what our femalebattlers have to say :

In the concept of "nobody is perfect", I think a guy can love two women at the same time. You see, every guy set ideals whom to love, maybe half of his ideals fit the other girl and the other half fits another. He may love them both but not marry at the same time. – Mhelvs M.

Yes. Just recently I came across a 40 year old man who has ten kids with seven different women. He said he loves them all. As a proof, he goes home every night to all four of them. The three others are out of the country working. Whenever one of these girls arrives, he spends the entire week with the girl after which he goes home to all five of them. Funny, but all of the girls know the existence of the other, and yet opted to stick with the relationship. – Name Withheld Upon Request

No man can really love two women equally and unconditionally at the same time. He's just being selfish and self-centered. He's only giving in to his own satisfaction and selfishness. I believe that when you really love someone, you won't be tempted by another. Love by definition is thinking of the other's feelings as well as yours. – Jasmin Fernando

I personally don’t believe that a man can love two different women at the same time. Attraction is there but I doubt if the feeling is there. – Rochiel Santos

Personally, a lot of things are possible, but basically I do not believe that the guy really fall in love in two women at the same time. Most of the time it is only an attraction (some call it lust!) other than that he doesn't really knows what he wants. – Jong Dionisio

I think its really possible for a guy to fall for two women at the same time. But I don’t believe that he loves them both. He must have found something in another which he had been missing in the other. – KSilva

The guy has a wrong concept of love because true love requires faithfulness and devotion. He is rationalizing and justifying his wrongful deeds. This is a silly question. Obviously, the guy is taking advantage of, perhaps, financially-troubled women. He is just using them to satisfy his worldly desires. For the women to even tend to believe that he loves both of them shows the obvious success of his deceit. Wake up! –JB

Yes, he can just like we, women also can. The difference is - - WE DO NOT ALLOW it nor entertain the thought. Maybe because we lose more than we gain or probably due to our beliefs, our faith or the way we were raised. But then again, we now hear stories of ladies being in the same situation. Times are changing isn't it? – Doris Salengua

It’s not easy living with a man who "loves" 2 women at the same time. I asked my bf that time and my hubby now, is it possible for him to love us both. He said that, the love is not equal......the love he has for me is the one that means he's willing to marry me........his feelings for the other girl is just a passing-fancy-kind-of-love-with-lots-of-different-sex-positions that girl could muster! he enjoys and thrilled being with girl 2 bec with her, there's no commitment, always have time for sex (in different positions, so exciting talaga) – KCC

of course. it is possible to love two person at the same time. even women do that. :o-) - Marian

I firmly believe a guy cannot love two women at the same time. He must really be sick in the head to claim that. He either loves one and uses the other for his own selfish reasons. If he loses one, he is broken hearted, if he loses the other, he is broken lusted!- Klara de Guzman

Getting into a relationship takes a lot of risks, the greatest of which is getting hurt. If we trust and our partner betrays us, we feel hurt and sometimes devastated after the end of the relationship. For those women who are into this situation (1+1=3), pray harder for discernment amd strength to carry on. Carrying on may mean letting go and moving on or holding on and opening to greater risks of being hurt in the future.

Do not be afraid of the future. I’m already there! – God ;-)